Self reliance 

and the values 

of

pacience and caring

The beauty of self-reliance lies in its way to send a rather simple yet transcendent message which is that live doesn’t need all these fancy complicated conformities to live happily one can live happily with the basic yet little things in life this is also compared to two values caring and patience.

Patience is displayed from the very beginning as the author describes his experience of leaving everything he had to live life happily living only with what’s absolutely necessary or as he describes it finding the true meaning of life, he goes to great lengths he as he questions what is truly the purpose of life stating that one must be himself and not be something or someone we are not and that humans greatest mistake is to pretend to be some thing or someone we are not, he also highlights the fact that mankind has become more and more conformist with society not questioning the morality or even the fairness of the situation

Ralph Waldo Emerson also highlights the fact that mankind has stopped questioning the morality and even the rules of society just being conformist towards the current situation.

Another important point of the story of self-reliance is that waldo also says that man’s emotion is something passenger like the wind they come and go but he goes ahead and question why its relevant he also displays a very accurate quote of what is good and evil he states that good and evil are merely names but very rarely does it translate to something concreate or even an action and I must say that I agree no matter how you put it the line between good and evil is often blur black and white become gray so easily.

And displays caring since the author displays a great deal of care towards human kind and showing his preoccupation towards the disgusting conformism that mankind has adopted in the last century and that one must be unconformity to find what’s wrong with society ask questions, question the establish law, ask yourself how morally grey is our society.

He also displays a sad but accurate statement in which he declares that all the great thinkers or philosophers had been greatly misunderstood since their ideas to change society were ruined purely due to ignorance thanks to the conformism of the now a day society or even the one from their time. Socrates, Jesus Aristotle, Plato four of the greatest thinker’s inventors and philosophers and all suffered the same unfortunate fate misunderstood by society and where branded outcasts and looked down upon just cause of their different ways of thinking

But definitely the most important if not my favorite point the story tries to prove is that we have lost most of our self-trust since we are afraid of not fitting into society since according to them if you are not like the rest you are not normal, honestly I couldn’t agree more since this is society’s greatest problem is that we try to do anything to fit in even if we know we normally wouldn’t do those sort of things

And that we have also focused too much on frivolous material things that are inconcecuencial to life its self. The author displays how much he cares and preoccupies for society as a hole and he worries because he sees that we have become conformist and have stopped caring for creating a truly open and free society and he displays patience in the sense that he actually took the time to actually write about what he thinks and actually are the greatest flaws of modern day society.